The Therapy Journal
This is where psychotherapy steps out of the session and into conversation. From our defences that shape our daily lives to the emotions that drive our choices, these pieces explore the human mind through a psychodynamic lens.
Whether clinical or cultural, every post asks the same question: what happens when we stop avoiding our feelings?
Where therapy meets everyday life…
When Conspiracy Thinking Becomes Emotional Avoidance
Conspiracy thinking is often treated as a belief issue. In therapy, it can function as emotional avoidance. By understanding the anxiety and vulnerability beneath rigid certainty, people can begin to build the capacity to stay present with uncertainty rather than defending against it.
You Can’t Think Your Way Out of Autopilot: What Social Media Gets Wrong About Self-Observation and What Therapy Actually Changes
Social media often treats self-observation as a quick fix. Therapy takes a different approach. This article explores why awareness alone rarely changes patterns and how slowing down reactions in real time helps create genuine emotional choice.
What the Latest UK Therapy Data Really Tells Us and What It Means If You’re Thinking About Therapy
Therapy has quietly become mainstream in the UK, with more than a third of adults having tried it, and most finding it helpful. But beneath anxiety and stress, loneliness is often the real driver. As therapy moves online and into everyday life, this piece explores why human connection still matters, how to choose support wisely, and what actually makes therapy work.
Four Thousand Hours: A Reflection on Depth, Distance, and the Digital Room
After thousands of hours of online therapy, this reflection explores what makes emotional depth possible through a screen. It looks at how anxiety, defences, and emotional capacity show up in online sessions, and why presence and consistency matter more than physical location.
The Power of Coming Back: Lewis Capaldi, Vulnerability, and the Quiet Strength of Resilience
Using Lewis Capaldi’s return to the stage as a reflection point, this post explores why the same qualities that heal us in therapy, connection, patience, and self-belief also sustain us in life. Resilience grows quietly, through honesty, support, and the courage to keep showing up.