The Power of Coming Back: Lewis Capaldi, Vulnerability, and the Quiet Strength of Resilience

TL;DR: Resilience rarely arrives with noise or drama. It grows quietly, moment by moment, through support, honesty, and courage. Watching Lewis Capaldi return to the stage after facing his mental health challenges was a moving reminder that what heals us in therapy is what heals us in life: connection, patience, and belief in ourselves.


Lewis Capaldi Live Manchester Co-Op Live 20th September 2025

Lewis Capaldi performing at Co-op Live, Manchester, surrounded by light and an audience that believed in him.

A Night That Spoke to Something Deeply Human

Last night I had the privilege of seeing Lewis Capaldi perform at Co-op Live in Manchester through the BetterHelp Ambassador Programme.

The night carried more than music. It carried the story of what it means to return after falling away.

Lewis spoke openly about the challenges that once kept him off stage: anxiety, exhaustion, and the strain of expectation. His honesty filled the 23,500 capacity crowd arena with something powerful. In those quiet pauses between songs, thousands of people recognised something of themselves.


Resilience Built Quietly

As therapists, we often see resilience forming one session at a time. It is not about bouncing back but about staying with what hurts long enough for something new to emerge.

In therapy that might mean turning toward a feeling you’ve spent years avoiding. On stage, it might mean stepping into the light even when your body trembles.

For Lewis, it was both. His return showed how courage can coexist with fear, and how persistence becomes strength.


Vulnerability That Changes Culture

Speaking openly about mental health changes how we see strength. Lewis put on an amazing performance that was emotionally charged and redefined what it means to show up.

He reminded us that healing is rarely straight or predictable, and that vulnerability can be a bridge rather than a weakness.

That message belongs in therapy rooms and in the wider world.


Creating space, a space that’s safe, open, and gently prompted allows real moments to surface. In this exclusive interview with BetterHelp, Lewis Capaldi opens up about his experience with therapy: how it can be private, intimate, and safe. It’s in spaces like these where both you, and a global superstar like Lewis, can show up as your most genuine self.


A Thank You…

Thank you to BetterHelp for making experiences like this possible through the Ambassador Programme and for supporting conversations that extend beyond therapy.

And thank you, #LewisCapaldi, for showing how truth and openness can light the way back.


Rick Cox

Psychodynamic Psychotherapist | BetterHelp Brand Ambassador | National Media Contributor | Bridging Psychotherapy & Public Mental Health Awareness | therapywithrick.com

https://www.therapywithrick.com
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