The Therapy Journal
This is where psychotherapy steps out of the session and into conversation. From our defences that shape our daily lives to the emotions that drive our choices, these pieces explore the human mind through a psychodynamic lens.
Whether clinical or cultural, every post asks the same question:
What happens when we stop avoiding our feelings?
Where therapy meets everyday life
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Beyond the Weekly Fires: Reflections on a Year of Learning ISTDP
After years of helping people make sense of their difficulties, I began asking an uncomfortable question: was I sometimes helping them understand the same problems without changing what kept them going? A year of ISTDP training has challenged how I listen, intervene, and understand my own role as a psychotherapist.
Mentalisation and Fragility: Reflections from a Workshop
When working with emotional fragility, strengthening the capacity to think under pressure often comes before deep emotional work. Mentalisation, understanding behaviour in terms of thoughts and feelings, provides a stabilising foundation for therapy. When affect rises too quickly, reflection can narrow or collapse. Slowing the process and restoring shared thinking allows emotional work to unfold more safely.
Four Thousand Hours: A Reflection on Depth, Distance, and the Digital Room
After thousands of hours of online therapy, this reflection explores what makes emotional depth possible through a screen. It looks at how anxiety, defences, and emotional capacity show up in online sessions, and why presence and consistency matter more than physical location.